I get so sick 'n' tired of being sick 'n' tired of the so call Fathers who use this excuse...amph (let me clear my throat, so you can understand the words that are coming out of my mouth)...you know I had to right....okay, but back to what I was saying....LOL....
The lame excuse we mothers often hear the fathers tell the child/children is, “I didn't come around to pick you up, see you or visit you, because of your mom”...WTH??? Is that what some of you all do to try to get back in the child/childrens good graces? Father's will often tell the child/children , “I can't stand her or I don't like her or we didn't/don't get along” etc, etc...Now look-a-here; I don't think you all were saying that when you were behind close doors saying woo-woo, woo-woo woo. Listen, you may be able to get away with that on your first child, but when YOU have a another baby by someone else and they say the same darn thing excuse me, excuse me let me once again clear my throat!!! WHAT is that saying about YOU as a father? In my best Arsenio Hall voice... “one of the questions that make you go hmmmmmmmm?????”
Father's you have a right to see your child/children NO MATTER WHAT!!! I don't care if she is just shy of whatever coo-coo's nest you say she flew from or if she is just complete 51/50. You are NOT obligated to deal with nor carry on a side relationship with the mother, but you ARE obligated to do right by your child/children period point blank, that's it 'n' that's all...There are laws in place that not even a mother can cross...right is right and wrong is wrong.... If you can lay up to make a baby, then take time out and think with the right head this go around to know as well as learn your rights. STOP with all the excuses and exercise your rights to do right by your child/children or what's in the BEST interest of the child/children....Any guy can make a baby all day everyday, but it takes a MAN to stand up and be that child's daddy AND father......you better know it!!
The measure of a man is his FAMILY....even his child/children who may not live in the same home with him.....xoxo
Hey ladies.... Now fair is fair, so I'm getting ready to speak my peace about us like it or not..You either love it or hate it, but it is what it is, so here we go. I get so sick 'n' tired of being sick 'n' tired of the so call Mothers who use this excuse and you know I cleared my throat for this one... “ (with my hands on hip like some of you often do with the head going every which way but at a stand still) he ain't paying me no money/child support to see “my” child” or “he has another *itch so *uck him and that ho, ho, ho” in my best-est best Santa Claus voice...LOL ...just trying to lift the mood...
Look, rather you like it or not the word is “OUR” children NOT “my” gosh-be-darn-it! Go into court if you want to with that mess and a REAL judge will correct you right off the top as he/she should!! I watch my court shows, let alone seen it at first hand when my ex-husband believe it or not tried to utilize that “my” mess in court. That judge ripped him a whole new a$$hole, and he NO longer sings “my my my, my my my” in my best Johnny Gill singing voice.... Nevertheless, so what if he has someone else!!! What in tar-nation does that have to do with your child/children seeing “THEIR” father?? If your child is in harms way then deal with it in court, put it on paper if that's the issue at hand! If you say it's as bad as it is, then a judge would have no problem adhering to your case and giving the father “LIMITED" or "SUPERVISED” visitation or even “NONE” at all right??? or is it YOU just being selfish or hurt from the outcome??? I understand mama's baby, daddy's maybe, but some of us take it too far off the Richter scale.
Mothers you DO NOT have a right to keep the child/children away from their father for a non justified reason and NO we are not speaking of being justified by you based on hurt/mixed emotions or even jealousy swaying your decision. Children grow up and ask questions and when that famous question arises “why didn't you let me see my father”...ummmm what lie or excuse are you going to give??? I'm just saying... A child/children are NOT pawns for you to dangle when you see fit just because YOU gave birth. If you're in doubt of your child/children being with their father; then you should have gave that more thought before laying down and opening up your lips to say ahhhhhhh....
Proverbs 31:28 Her children rise up and call her blessed, her husband also and he praise her..(in this case her child's father)..Be that Virtuous Woman your child/children see........xoxo
