money
and/or
your sexual parts........ (lol on the picture I know...I couldn't help myself..hahahah)
What do you say or do in regards to accepting / dealing with the issue or do you ignore it and act like it never happened due to male ego's? ~~
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ReplyDeletewell for me it depends on how much i liked the girl, if i liked her a lot i'd talk to a friend that understands but its hard to find male friends to talk to about this kinda stuff usually the advice from a male friend would be "F her forget about her she's not worth it" and i must say that is my attitude aswell sometimes, show no weekness, there is no problem if ya think theres no problem kinda thing
ReplyDeleteIt's very likely that if I had "invested" my "feelings" into this "relationship" with this person I might not ever speak with them again.
ReplyDeleteIt really depends on what our mutual feelings are. Do we continue along the same path? Do we attempt to salvage what we had or seek more than fleeting gratification from one another?
Hard to say.
Well for the MONEY - once upon my own discovery and acceptance I decreased my level of involvement with the female. It was rough with the "passive agressive" type; took it to prayer and spent some of my own cash on some mental relief!
ReplyDeleteNow the body part - well I just made her say my name ova and ova in a really naughty way!
I think if it deals with money and I find out, its a wrap! I would probably try to have sex with her if I haven't already just so I can get something out of the deal. Which leads into the next one: being used for sex I think MOST men wouldn't mind it at all. As a matter of fact I think MOST prefer it that way. I don't have to commit to anything but a good time. That's GREAT!!
ReplyDeleteI think every guy has that experience where he takes a woman out on an expensive date where she acts like she's all into him then at the end of the evening he's lucky if he even gets a peck on the cheek.
ReplyDeleteThat's when she goes inside and texts/calls that "girlfriend" of hers that she got a message from during dinner.
Once you realize what's just happened all you can really do is make sure it doesn't happen again. Back when it happened to me it made me realize that if a woman wants you, it's on, if not then it won't matter how much you spend. So for me it was just a life lesson.
I've been both guys and it's a lot more fun being the second guy.
If by chance I discovered a young lady using me for my money I would see the warning signs coming. First my instincs would instruct me that something is not right. Next I would see jus how often we communicate, I mean do we only talk during the day or always at a specific time like in the late evening. If we have never had sexual intercourse, then I would see what is the hold up. If she appears to be not interested everytime I bring it up then I would get the message and move on. Trust me when I say this, If we have no chemistry at all I would BOUNCE! I could never fake my interest.Everything would be based on wether or not we have chemistry.
ReplyDeleteIf I felt that a particular woman was playing me for my money their would be two things that I would consider doing to teach her a lesson. First I would invite her out to a very expensive resturant. Order a crap load of food and drinks, Head for the men's room and then Bounce! Directly in that order. If that did not work and I had to pay for the dinner, I would take her to a remote location some place very far from her home. Act as if I am having car trouble and jus bounce. I would let her know that she has to find a way home cause I'm audi 5000
ReplyDeleteLoving the comments on here as well as the 2 on the group page...lol...THANKS for helping out the person who sent me this question to post...keep the comments coming...she thanked me, however, the true THANKS goes out to you "men" for helping her out with her paper....xoxoxo
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