The world is definitely changing when it comes to staying married these days. Now, look....You get married how you like, but drive up window weddings???? Okay, okay that's judging, so forgive me....lol
Nevertheless, the “D” word is on the rise and still growing at a fast rate. People now staying married less then 3 years, 1 year, 6 months, fewer months, weeks, days, and now hours. Some yelling I want a divorce and others rushing go get a darn annulment...WOW.....it just boggles my mind indeed.....smh
If children are involved then they're torn between both parents trying as hard as they can to salvage what's left as if they were the adults.
Of course that doesn't work; so we all know what comes next...."The Petition" to file and let the games begin or is it let's get ready 2 rumbleeeeeeee!!!!!!!
Who gets the child/children, pets, finances, material things etc, etc and you think it stops there??? Hell NO!!! It's always that one parent who will keep going 'n' going 'n' going like that damn energizer pink bunny until the kid(s) are 18 and still some...
HA! If you think you wont be placed on public display in front of others in a court room try live t.v. The media is making a killing off of “grown adults” battle their love 'n' hate relationship out in front of millions tuned in gawking, and laughing. All for what?? To see whom can belittle the other parent the most in the end. Hmmmmm???? Okay????? Sheeesh....
If it all works out in your favor, its no more going home to weep and/or wallow. It's all about friends sending Happy Divorce greetings and if you really want to have a shin-dig....its all about an all out themed “Divorce Party”. Oh yes indeedy....invitations, guests, cake, formal, informal, casual...you name it and its done your way like Burger King....yes, yes
Whatever, How ever, Whenever, or even Who ever you decide to do your divorce with....Just make sure you're doing it for you your way and your truly happy with the end results. ONLY YOU know when you're sick in tired of being sick 'n' tired.....
I don't know who's cake this is, but you know you're wrong as 2 left shoes....however, in my best Wendy Williams voice "I like it"...hahahhaha
I say whats the point in getting married if you arent taking the time to get to know the other person thoroughly before hand...doesnt make sense to me. If & when I get married it is for LIFE..my spouse will be my best friend, he will know everything there is to know about me as I will about him..if you find someone who is open & honest you shouldnt have any problems...he definitely has to be totally in love with me cuz I dont do the sharing thing. Anyway to answer your question, I think a man or woman should wait to start another relationship before he or she is fully divorced simply becuz you never know if the parties involved will decide if they want each other after all. I dont feel divorce has to be ugly or long drawn...decide what you want outside of court, come to some agreement & definitely figure out custody issues away from the home..The kids dont need to be involved in the back & forth arguments. If a man or woman decides to start another relationship they need to make sure it is exactly what they want & keep them far away from what is going on in their divorce proceedings...just my opinion with a touch of Sunshine!!!
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