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Friday, October 8, 2010

My 13 year old teen placed this on their page “I miss my bro wanna see him but daddy needs 2 get a lyfe and let my momma see him. it seem like this - my momma gotta lyfe. she let me see you when I want 2 but my brother can't see my momma wow daddy sad smh daddy need a lyfe......Her father saw the post and asked if she ...wrote it and she stated yes it's how she feels. Her father told her not to call him anymore. I'm lost and dont know what 2 tell her. Please post any helpful feedback. Thank you so much. ~~ L.L.

There's no handbook 4 parents and sometimes we say some of the dumbest shhhh...ok things 2 our kids when we've been upset and/or hurt by the things our children may have said. Not justifying at all, because I do believe the fathers actions were not right!!! 



We parents "need" to start listening to our children more, when they have things they need or want to say/tell us...children these days are more upfront and sometimes brutally honest. Rather we like what we may hear or not, they do have a right to express themselves in a proper way. That old saying, "children should be seen and not heard"....well that mess is hog wash....

Many of us may feel children (teenagers included) should not post personal matters on FB for any 'n' everyone to see and mind you this goes for some adults doing the same exact thing for that matter.

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