Before you get involved ask yourself and go over:
There's no rule stating you have to like nor deal with the significant other.
It's their mate and NOT yours. Remember you have the choice to stay away from them.
You sure as heck don't live with them and if you do; you surly can move the heck out.
They have to deal with him/her rather it may not be a great decision for them or not. In the end it is their choice even if you get involved.
If you all have family gatherings or functions you don't have to communicate or even show up.
The best thing you can do is stay close to your sibling. They may really need you at some point, so YES, if they are in harms way/danger then do what you must for their safety "legally of course" ;-) rather they like it or not......
I on the outside looking in do not have siblings. However, I seen my x husband jump on or in his sisters husbands/boyfriends rear so hard it was just a HOT mess!!!
ReplyDeleteNevertheless, the sister(s) ended up staying with their mates in the end until they were ready to leave.
I would ask him why do you feel the need to go through alllllll of that if they stay with their husbands/boyfriends and then at a family function you two guys are looking at one another like you all ate 10 year old sauerkraut and kimchi all in one mouth full.....Ridiculous!!!
I say stay out of it until you know for sure they are sick 'n' tired of being sick 'n' tired of that relationship!!! just my opinion ;-)