A ménage à trois is the French term describing a relationship or domestic arrangement in which three people, often a married couple and another lover, share a sexual relationship. The French phrase translates into: "household of three", however, the more common predominant definition is known as a “Threesome”. Some basically describe it as ANY sex act involving three people, which the Ménage à trois, is most commonly performed with 2 women and 1 man.
Men were the ones to find it more as a fantasy that had to be fulfilled at some point in their life, but now women are finding it just as appealing, intriguing, pleasurable, satisfying...whatever the politically correct word is these days...
Threesomes are so common now, that they are almost a thing of the past if you will and Foursomes are the new “IT” thing....the better way to go, so I've heard...smdh
You can find any how to book on the form, as well as any internet site asking you to join, locate and find. Not to mention swinger parties here, there and EVERYWHERE and if you think its just for married people or couples think again. Its not only common for one-night stands, but its now so common that the younger generation (meaning our children) are out there wit' it; like changing underwear or brushing teeth everyday...ummmm DON'T sleep on it parents....pfffffttttt!!!! Wake the heck up if you were snoozing....I'm just telling you what I know...humphhh...
Take into account if your husband or wife asked for a ménage à trois and you said no, heck no, or hell to the no. Does it raise some concern in the back of your mind; “what you won't do someone else will”??? Is it easier or harder to give in because, of the sacred marriage bond that you all have, where as if you weren't married would it be much easier to walk away??? So, if not a manajatwa then what spice needs to be sprinkled in the love shack room??
First of all let me SMDH at foursomes...!!!WTH??? With that being said, I personally don't have a problem with threesomes. I wouldn't participate as a one night stand. My partner/husband and I would have to come to an agreement before hand what is okay to do and don't do, because somethings that can happen can cause problems in the relationship between the two of you. It's can be an eye opener to the other party as to what the person likes and it can make it easier for the couple to talk about things that want during sex that are not being satisfied. Now they have opportunity to ask why we don't do that or I didn't know you like that. For those couples that don't talk about the likes and wants from their sexually relationship and kinda go with the flow.
ReplyDeleteMen are greedy these days and want 3 women instead of 2. I have had my share of 3 ways and I enjoy them with my mate, but 4 is going just to darn far!
ReplyDeleteWhen my daughter told me she had 1. I about died and died again. What do you say? Hell!! Well, she is grown, but damn WTF??
ReplyDeleteI would suggest to communicate with your lover. Find out what he/she is looking for, what they are missing. I do believe after while the same routine can become quite boring therefore, you have to be spontaneous and know your mate. After talking with them if they wants try someone different then you can bring someone different in the picture. Sometimes it can be a different scene ppl needs and if so go on vacation to the mountains or get a room. If you normally don't watch porn you can watch porn with your lover to get new ideas. You can also go to a swingers club. I think there is a lot of different suggestions but it just depends on the lover. Your lover might not wanna be touched by another female or wanna see another female on her man therefore I wouldn't not suggest a "manajatwa” unless you are ready. And most definitely wouldn't have one to please my lover, it would have to be something we both wanna do. And last but not least, most married couples do not have FOREPLAY, why I don't know. Every once in a while treat your lover like you don't know them. Pop up on their job with flowers and take them to lunch. Then when they get home rub their body down with some hot oil, make love to their mind and body without using sex. Man your can tell your woman you do not want to have sex and just tease her. Woman you already know your man wanna have sex so I would put on some porn or dance for my man to arouse them. Then you will be surprise how wet those draws will be, lol...or how turned on your man will be. Best of luck!!
ReplyDeleteLet's just be honest. Having sex with the same person for years is BORING. There is nothing to bring "back". Unless she's out of shape and suddenly hits the gym and gets a boob job, then yes but even so that's like a different person.
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