What do you do when you have a longtime friend that has crossed you in way that you cut off all communication with them for years on end? Then a tragedy happens in that friends life..Do you be there for them or not after soooo long? ~ Anonymous

It's a shame that it usually takes something dramatic/tragic 2 happen 2 someone for us 2 come around 2 forgive someone...(and yes I'm guilty 2)...

 
We will cut off ...family and/or friends, because we allow our emotions to get in the way....yet some of us are quick 2 claim or shout out I'm a christian...sure the flesh is week...

Now look.... I'm not one 2 preach, BUT.... 

all's I will say further is: Matthew 18:21-22 and leave it at that..... 

♥ ya ;-D

Men do you feel you should always pay for dinner or always pay for dinner on the first date why or why not? Ladies do you feel a man should always pay for dinner or always pay for dinner on the first day why or why not?

Just follow the bouncing ball I mean pictures.....lol

Does it already start out this way 4 u?

Does he gesture 2 pay for dinner or is he really just looking at his funds 2 see if he has enough?

Or  does he let you know you can surly take care of it knowing you're the independent woman you are?

Or did he run out knowing he was way to far out his league and yours thinking he would pay?

Have you ever had this one here?

Or do you just split the check, or does one gesture to leave the tip?

How long does a man wait after filing for divorce/ separation before gettin' with the next?? Some divorces take years to finalize, so is dating/hooking up/getting in a relationship while technically married a definitive "no"? Is it black and white? Or, is there a gray area? Meaning: Married is married regardless, until... the papers are signed and stamped? Or, once papers are filed and parties are physically separated, game on? ~~ Anonymous

The world is definitely changing when it comes to staying married these days. Now, look....You get married how you like, but drive up window weddings???? Okay, okay that's judging, so forgive me....lol 

Nevertheless, the “D” word is on the rise and still growing at a fast rate. People now staying married less then 3 years, 1 year, 6 months, fewer months, weeks, days, and now hours. Some yelling I want a divorce and others rushing go get a darn annulment...WOW.....it just boggles my mind indeed.....smh 

If children are involved then they're torn between both parents trying as hard as they can to salvage what's left as if they were the adults. 

 

Of course that doesn't work; so we all know what comes next...."The Petition" to file and let the games begin or is it let's get ready 2 rumbleeeeeeee!!!!!!!

Who gets the child/children, pets, finances, material things etc, etc and you think it stops there??? Hell NO!!! It's always that one parent who will keep going 'n' going 'n' going like that damn energizer pink bunny until the kid(s) are 18 and still some...

HA! If you think you wont be placed on public display in front of others in a court room try live t.v. The media is making a killing off of “grown adults” battle their love 'n' hate relationship out in front of millions tuned in gawking, and laughing. All for what?? To see whom can belittle the other parent the most in the end. Hmmmmm???? Okay????? Sheeesh....

If it all works out in your favor, its no more going home to weep and/or wallow. It's all about friends sending Happy Divorce greetings and if you really want to have a shin-dig....its all about an all out themed “Divorce Party”. Oh yes indeedy....invitations, guests, cake, formal, informal, casual...you name it and its done your way like Burger King....yes, yes

Whatever, How ever, Whenever, or even Who ever you decide to do your divorce with....Just make sure you're doing it for you your way and your truly happy with the end results. ONLY YOU know when you're sick in tired of being sick 'n' tired.....

I don't know who's cake this is, but you know you're wrong as 2 left shoes....however, in my best Wendy Williams voice "I like it"...hahahhaha

Has a parent ever wanted you to date or marry outside your own race or only date or marry within your race? Were they disappointed of your decision and/or how did it all work out in the end if at all??

 

Is it better not to get involved with your sibling(s) and significant other when they're fighting and/or if your friend and their significant other are fighting? Do you stay out of it or get involved and if you get involved is there a limit of involvement? ~~ Anonymous Sibling of 5

Before you get involved ask yourself and go over:

There's no rule stating you have to like nor deal with the significant other. 

It's their mate and NOT yours. Remember you have the choice to stay away from them.

You sure as heck don't live with them and if you do; you surly can move the heck out.

They have to deal with him/her rather it may not be a great decision for them or not. In the end it is their choice even if you get involved.

If you all have family gatherings or functions you don't have to communicate or even show up.

The best thing you can do is stay close to your sibling. They may really need you at some point, so YES, if they are in harms way/danger then do what you must for their safety "legally of course"  ;-)  rather they like it or not...... 

Does anyone know anything about the illuminati and/or their presence in the “media” or their purpose? ~~ Anonymous

What is the Illuminati?

The Illuminati, translated as the people of the light, refers to several groups and to prevailing conspiracy theories about some of these groups’ importance or continued influence in the modern world. Most specifically, the Illuminati were a radical group in Bavaria founded in 1776, which gave rise to other countries also forming Illuminati groups.

The Bavarian Illuminati, as well as its offshoot groups, was a secret society, to which many politicians and intellectuals were drawn. The Society of Masons was thought to have close ties with members of the Illuminati, and many Masons joined the Illuminati. Some Mason groups felt that they were religiously conflicted with the Illuminati because many Illuminati members were atheists. 

http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-the-illuminati.htm 

What is the Illuminati conspiracy?

The Illuminati conspiracy is a conspiracy theory which holds that there is a "global elite" society that is either in control of the world, or is seeking to take control of the world. As with most conspiracy theories, beliefs regarding the Illuminati conspiracy vary widely. As a result, it is virtually impossible to give a synopsis of the Illuminati conspiracy. Popularized in recent books and movies, the Illuminati conspiracy has definitely reached "cult fiction" status.

http://www.gotquestions.org/illuminati-conspiracy.html 

Tupac, Jay, Beyonce, Illuminati…What the F*$k Is Really Going On?

This society has thier hands in everything, religion, politics, media, corporate America, the IRS and the entertainment industry. Why? The answer is obvious to me…all of those things are used to control American citizens. Religion was used as a way to make the slaves docile, and ineffective. The media is used to control what we see and hear. The IRS and Government is there to make sure that only certain people are able to gain any wealth, and the so-called American Dream. The entertainment industry is designed to keep us dumbed down, and distracted from the issues that have the most effect on our survival such as voting, getting involved in the community, and reading. 

http://dirtygurl.wordpress.com/2009/04/30/tupac-jay-beyonce-illuminatiwhat-the-fk-is-really-going-on/ 

Note: Please use factual evidence/support when posting your views on this post. I would think this is a very complexed topic to discuss, so with that said.....if in doubt please refer to the “INFO TAB” on Facebook in regards to the guidelines of what the purpose of this paged is designed for when posting.....thank you...

http://www.masonicinfo.com/illuminati.htm 

 

Who made the decision that models have to be a size 0 in the industry? When is pushing anorexic just too damn far? How do I offer support for a friend who is taking that turn towards anorexia? ~~ Anonymous Note: Please post any useful eating disorder groups/sites that may be of any assistance to someone in need....Thank you

SOCIAL CAUSES of anorexia are contributing to the disease and worsening its effects on teenagers. Unfortunately, anorexia has become an almost glamorous disorder to have, something which actresses and models seem to constantly be dealing with.

THE SIDE EFFECTS of anorexia can be so severe that they shorten a person's life. Learn about the mental and physical dangers associated with this disease.

LEARNING HOW TO TREAT ANOREXIA begins with an understanding that the disease is psychological in nature. Constant, loving support is required to break the mental barriers that keep anorexics from building a healthy relationship with food. 

 

Weight Loss

If your child loses weight suddenly or dramatically you should be concerned about anorexia, but many girls/boys with anorexia do not have extreme weight loss.

 

Obsession With Food

People with anorexia are obsessed with food. Although they restrict what they eat, food consumes them. 

Distorted Body Image

A major indicator of anorexia is they may think that they are fat, even if they're from it. People with anorexia are never satisfied with their body, no matter how thin they get and many will weigh themselves excessively.

Emotions

Some people with anorexia have trouble discussing their feelings or they're moody and respond to confrontation with extreme actions, such as bursts of anger or withdrawal.

Excessive Exercise

Obsessive exercise is often an indicator of a bigger problem.

Nausea or Bloating
People with anorexia often complain about feeling nausea or bloated after eating no matter the amount.

Feeling Cold
Look for someone who dresses in layers.

Hair Loss
Losing hair or thinning hair is common for those suffering with anorexia.

Stops Getting Her Period
Sometimes girls with anorexia stop getting their period, because their body has undergone too much stress. You may notice this in conjunction with severe weight loss.

Self-harm
Self-harm can be an indicator of anorexia, as well as other disorders that require professional treatment.

**Eating disorders can be treated, but may involve psychological help as well as nutritional feeding and medical monitoring.**

TALK TO YOUR CHILD'S DOCTOR IF YOU FEAR THAT HE OR SHE HAS ANOREXIA, BUT MAKE SURE TO PLAY YOUR PART IN "UNDERSTANDING".....