Do you have drama/issues with the other parent, the sperm donor, baby maker, non custodial parent or whatever it is you label him or her? If so, how do or did you overcome them for the best interest of the child or children or is it still a working process? Please help with any positive advice that you think will work to ease the tension ~~ Sign Going Insane Mother of a innocent 10 year old boy

I have a four year old son and his dad and I have not been together in about seven months. We had a nine year relationship and we tried to get back together several times and I realized that we are better apart than together. We both keep in mind the best interest of our son. His dad has a temper along with mature controlling issues. My son lives with me and visit his dad every other weekend and we both agreed to the arrangement without going to court. I have my son call his dad every other day and his dad will call him as well. I try to keep his dad involved with every aspect that involves my son. It is very challenging at times because my sons dad pays half of his daycare and he's not paying child support. I will be filling for custody and child support next year, however I will approach him to discuss child support and if he refuse I will let the court handle it. When I left his dad I did tell him that I will give him every opportunity to be a great dad to his son. So far he's doing a good job because my son will be a man one day and I think its best for his dad to teach him how to be a man. Just always think about the interest of your child and make your own decision without letting others cloud your judgment.
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