You catch your friends’ significant other cheating.
Do you let the person know you seen them cheating?
Do you contact your friend immediately or wait till later giving the cheater a chance to confess?
Do you call your friend and tell them your ummm stranded and have them meet you at that location ASAP to bust the cheater with their “own eyes”?
Do you just tell yourself stay out of it, its not my business and just not say anything at all?? (or until the cheater says he saw you and your friend calls to ask you; why didn't you say anything)??
~~ Lisa from the Magic City
It depends on who your friend is how long you knew them. Let me tell you what happened to me whe I was yonger. Some mixe girl who girls was jealous of became my friend her boyfriend was a friend of the family so he was cool with me. However, he was so insecrue and jealous of people hanging with his girl friend. She told me if I hang with a girl he thinks that girl has a guy hidden away waiting to steal her away from him. I was like NO!!! So Her and i became good friends and one day her insecure boy friend starts giving me complemets I was like save it for your girl friend and then he tried to talk to me. I was like you know your wrong. You ain't all that Mr. You need to be faithful and stop thinking your God's gift to women cause your not! After I turned him down he ask if i was going to tell on him I was know cause you will eventully get caugt - Dogs always do. He was so scared I was going to my friend on him it was to funny to me. Well that's all I have to say about that for now.
ReplyDeleteI think the first thing you should do is confront the cheater. Give them about a week to confess and if they don't- tell your friend, very delicately. My grandmother says "once a cheater, always a cheater". One of my best friends can never ...be with one woman only and she always cheats and no matter what I tell here she can't stop.... It's not like she doesn't love her girlfriends, she does, I don't understand why is she always doing this.... But since in my case SHE is my friend, I don't want to ruin it for her. I have to talk to her and let her know what I think about it, because sooner or later she will be known as a cheater and a liar and that will be a shame because other than that she is a very good person. In my book, cheating is very selfish and one of the worst things a lover can do, I don't think I'll be able to forgive anyone who cheats me, and if I ever find myself cheating, I seriously rather kill myself on the spot.... After a betrayal, it's up to the couple to see if they can work things out or they have to separate and divorce... Either way, I don't think anyone should just stay out of it, once you're in it, you're in it. I know it's a messed up situation but maybe you can save your friend from a unhappy marriage.... Best of luck, Eden
ReplyDeleteWell I didn't tell what ended up happening to the the couple above they had a baby boy and got married. However, he never changed so she divorce him and got a new man. I think I heard he was stocking her after the divorce. Anway long story short her new man killed her husband. So the insecure jeaslous guy is dead. What a shame he never learned and he died young over his own insecurities. I tried to warn him years before his death that he shouldn't be that way. You should be happy with one women and leave the other ho's alone. But guys never listen to me when i tell them to be faithful.
ReplyDeleteConsidering most of my female friends have a story about a "best friend" stealing their man; I'm guessing American women are just plain scandalous.
ReplyDelete@ Captain No Marriage - I disagree with you. You just hanging with the wrong women or they hang with the wrong women. If someone calls there self your best friend they would never do that, its a friendship code true friends have. You or they need to hang around with the REAL Queens we could teach you what a REAL FRIEND is. What part of America do you live in. I know it not about where your from it about where you at in your own mind. I'm FREE I dont have slave mentality I know how to be a TRUE friend. True friend accept you for the good and the bad qualities you have. You can disagree and have your own opinion with out the friendship ending you can be you. That's a real friend. If you cant be yourself and they don't accept you and let you have your own opinion even if its different from there - they are not your friend. When I was in high school some girls would try to be my friend just to get to my brohter. This one girl fool me for a long time but when I found her out I confronted her, we almost got into a fist fight. She was not my friend she was a FAKE HO!!! I hate HO's trying to corrupt my brother.
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