The holidays are here and parties have been happening everywhere. Did you or someone ever feel bad or ashamed after having a one-night stand after a company Christmas party or any holiday party for that matter?
Do you prefer them due to no attachment, excitement, the thrill of it, spur of the moment type thing or whatever your reason is? ~~
47 year old living life divorcee
Ashamed for what? Two consenting adults can do what they want.
ReplyDeleteBesides tonight is Christmas Eve! A GREAT night to hit the bars and pick up some little princess crying in her beer! This not a joke, I do this also on Thanksgiving and Valentine's Day too! I feel that if a woman is at a bar drowning her sorrows on those nights, she's fair game just like any other night. If she didn't want it, she'd stay home.
@Captain No Marriage please be WARNED aids is out there. I use to work in Philadelphia in Clinical Pharamacology/Reasearch Department where we did studies on patients with Full blown aids. This one lady in the study who was married came in bragging to me how she went to a club an slep with a black man. Therefore, she gave him full blown aids. And be careful with codoms because there is a such thing as nano technology - is the study of controling matter on an atomic & molecular scale. Therefore, I believe nano can speep thru the small molecular structure of the condom. I could be wrong but be WARNED.
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I'm aware, but you take that risk whenever you hook up even with a co-worker. Of course we like to think we know the co-worker, but then again my co-worker is just someone else's bar fly.
ReplyDeleteAnd then you have girls night out, but that's another post in itself.
@Captain No Marrkiage can you post this on facebook please. Can I ask you a question - if you know the risk than why put your self in danger. What's so great about sleepinf around with strange women you don't know anything about? I'm not trying to be mean but guys are so dumb when it comes to women. If she's pretty or have a nice body or ugly and not have a nice body as long as she is willing to sleep with you - you'll do it. That is so dumb to me. What kind of example are you sending to the youth who observe your behavior??? Because they are watching.
ReplyDeleteI don't recall saying anything about sleeping with ugly chicks, they are for poor guys. Listen, I'm not being mean either, but one of the main reasons guys are driven to be successful is to be able to enjoy the spoils that come with. Of course among those spoils are beautiful women.
ReplyDeleteAnd as far as the youth, well not many youths are in upscale clubs or hotel bars. Plus if I have more impact on someone's kids than they do then they have failed as a parent.