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Rofl,, a shallow Hal moment if you will forgive me… Lets be honest yes, from a health point of view yes. From a starting need for physical atraction, Yes. I have always been on the thin side myself and my parents were both over weight. So I think I can say this, size matters in respect to our tastes, self image and health. The issues those face with being discriminated against on appearance creates the same issues as race, religion and income, being judged on aspects of what and who we are or have been. We all find a chip on their or our own shoulders. We all jump the gun and read our own insecurity into too much to often and them. So in the end yes it does matter as much as the color of your skin or beliefs and personality, that’s both the good and bad news. The best thing is, tastes very and with 6 billion people on this rock the odds aren’t great but at least possible that we can find people that both can understand us as we are and have been, see is for what we are and maybe can be and maybe we can see in someone like us the same, to see past our flaws in them and our self find something attractive in them too, grow as we and they do together beyond the shallow thing that sparked us together to begin with because what we find attractive at one point in our life should change as we age.
As my favorite poet Yates said, “ How many loved your moments of glad grace, And loved your beauty with love false or true; But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you, And loved the sorrows of your changing face.”. Time with someone if we grow, maybe we can then maybe someday be more the people that value all that has been with us or them than how we all look as we age or change, to many trade away everything else and too late find all the wanted was an illusion and end up empty.
I belive that everyone has beauty in them no matter what size they are. If they are anorexic like the model above then they need to get help. If not they will die. Just because you are over weight does not necessarily mean you are unhealthy. Not everyone will be thin, medium and or fat. God made us all individuals and we should never judge someone by there outward appearnce, because real beauty comes from within. Therefore, to me size does not matter.
When your child can’t run or runs maybe 3 steps then immediately stops;then I feel you should change your child’s eating habits from sweets and fried foods to something nutritional as well as exercise...I just saw this at the park the other day...The kid started crying..saying he was tired...The mother told him to come eat (fast food no doubt)...ummmm what was she not able to see that I saw....go figure ;-/
LOL ! LIKE MANY OTHER AFRICAN-AMERICAN MEN, I LIKE MY WOMEN THICK ! BIG ROUND BOOTY, WIDE HIP'S, BREAST SIZE IS'NT THAT IMPORTANT BUT IF THEY'RE BIG THAT'S A PLUS (I AM A FAN OF BIG NIPPLES) LOL ! I LIKE A SMALL WAISTLINE IN RELATIONSHIP TO... THE WOMAN'S OVER-ALL BODY TYPE, AND NICE LEG'S ! IN OTHER WORDS, I LIKE HOUR-GLASS FIGURES ! IT DOES'NT MATTER IF SHE'S PETIT, AVERAGE, OR PLUS SIZE ! BUT I GOTTA HAVE THAT COKE BOTTLE THANG GOIN ON ! LOL ! IF A WOMAN SIT'S DOWN AND HER STOMACH SIT'S BETWEEN HER LEG'S, THAT'S A BIT MUCH FOR ME ! LOL ! IN REGARDS TO THIN WOMEN, IF I CAN SEE YOUR RIB'S OR YOUR COLLAR BONE, OR YOU LOOK LIKE A SKELETON WITH SKIN, THANKS BUT NO THANKS ! LET ME SAY THAT MY COMMENTS ARE NOT MEANT TO OFFEND ANYONE ! IF I DID, I SINCERELY APOLOGIZE ! I'M JUST STATING MY OWN PERSONAL PREFERENCE !
Rofl,, a shallow Hal moment if you will forgive me… Lets be honest yes, from a health point of view yes. From a starting need for physical atraction, Yes. I have always been on the thin side myself and my parents were both over weight. So I think I can say this, size matters in respect to our tastes, self image and health. The issues those face with being discriminated against on appearance creates the same issues as race, religion and income, being judged on aspects of what and who we are or have been. We all find a chip on their or our own shoulders. We all jump the gun and read our own insecurity into too much to often and them. So in the end yes it does matter as much as the color of your skin or beliefs and personality, that’s both the good and bad news. The best thing is, tastes very and with 6 billion people on this rock the odds aren’t great but at least possible that we can find people that both can understand us as we are and have been, see is for what we are and maybe can be and maybe we can see in someone like us the same, to see past our flaws in them and our self find something attractive in them too, grow as we and they do together beyond the shallow thing that sparked us together to begin with because what we find attractive at one point in our life should change as we age.
ReplyDeleteAs my favorite poet Yates said, “ How many loved your moments of glad grace, And loved your beauty with love false or true; But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you, And loved the sorrows of your changing face.”. Time with someone if we grow, maybe we can then maybe someday be more the people that value all that has been with us or them than how we all look as we age or change, to many trade away everything else and too late find all the wanted was an illusion and end up empty.
I belive that everyone has beauty in them no matter what size they are. If they are anorexic like the model above then they need to get help. If not they will die. Just because you are over weight does not necessarily mean you are unhealthy. Not everyone will be thin, medium and or fat. God made us all individuals and we should never judge someone by there outward appearnce, because real beauty comes from within. Therefore, to me size does not matter.
ReplyDeleteWhen your child can’t run or runs maybe 3 steps then immediately stops;then I feel you should change your child’s eating habits from sweets and fried foods to something nutritional as well as exercise...I just saw this at the park the other day...The kid started crying..saying he was tired...The mother told him to come eat (fast food no doubt)...ummmm what was she not able to see that I saw....go figure ;-/
ReplyDeleteLOL ! LIKE MANY OTHER AFRICAN-AMERICAN MEN, I LIKE MY WOMEN THICK ! BIG ROUND BOOTY, WIDE HIP'S, BREAST SIZE IS'NT THAT IMPORTANT BUT IF THEY'RE BIG THAT'S A PLUS (I AM A FAN OF BIG NIPPLES) LOL ! I LIKE A SMALL WAISTLINE IN RELATIONSHIP TO... THE WOMAN'S OVER-ALL BODY TYPE, AND NICE LEG'S ! IN OTHER WORDS, I LIKE HOUR-GLASS FIGURES ! IT DOES'NT MATTER IF SHE'S PETIT, AVERAGE, OR PLUS SIZE ! BUT I GOTTA HAVE THAT COKE BOTTLE THANG GOIN ON ! LOL ! IF A WOMAN SIT'S DOWN AND HER STOMACH SIT'S BETWEEN HER LEG'S, THAT'S A BIT MUCH FOR ME ! LOL !
ReplyDeleteIN REGARDS TO THIN WOMEN, IF I CAN SEE YOUR RIB'S OR YOUR COLLAR BONE, OR YOU LOOK LIKE A SKELETON WITH SKIN, THANKS BUT NO THANKS ! LET ME SAY THAT MY COMMENTS ARE NOT MEANT TO OFFEND ANYONE ! IF I DID, I SINCERELY APOLOGIZE ! I'M JUST STATING MY OWN PERSONAL PREFERENCE !