If you are in doubt or have to ask is it cheating then 9 times out of 10 its cheating. If you're in doubt or you have to ask yourself is “he/she” cheating then gosh be darn it they're cheating!!
Flirting is all about socialization, conversation, body language, irony, playfulness, just harmless intentions.
Cheating is all about lies, deception, fraud, trickery, corruption, breaking laws and/or rules.
One of the best ways to differentiate between flirting versus cheating is to figure out where your primary emotional needs are being met with your partner.
Flirting becomes cheating when you have to lie to your partner or let alone keep them in darkness about anything you may be doing. If you can't tell it and/or you have to hide it then the old saying is “if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck then quack, quack” you are or they are cheating.
Simple, if you ain't married, you're single. If ya liked it then ya should have put a ring on it. Ladies (not trying to ignore the men but...) Ladies at the end of an unsuccessful relationship we feel we have given a lot more and it takes us a little longer to move on than men. I always say "Go all in for the man who goes all in for you" If you're single don't perform the acts of a married woman. If you're married don't perform the acts of a single woman.
ReplyDeleteAll of the above with someone other than your significant other IS cheating! Period.
ReplyDeleteCHEATING is never okay.... Neither is Flirting!! Why?? Because men/women often do not know where to draw the line.
ReplyDeleteI say.... if you are NOT happy being married, then leave.