Woman may have a variety of reasons fueling their behavior why they cheat with married men; which may include her her age, social class, marital status, and/or several other reasons. Nevertheless, no matter how you cut it, slice it, or dice it....the “heffa” is wrong, more wrong and dead wrong!!
Too many homes are being disrupted from people who don't hold nor respect their marriage vows. Sure we all aren't perfect and we all make mistakes, but come the hell on now?????
The husband doesn’t know rather to go left or right, the wife is on a rampage wondering who to kill first and if children are involved; who's thinking about them in the end????? They are the ones suffering emotionally and will be torn between both parents.....all behind someone not being able to think with the right head at the right time!
What you do in the dark will surly come to the light.....
No excuse, women need to have more respect from themselves and their vaginas! Most of all more common sense, why do you think a married man would mess around with you, "cuz he is a dawg stroking his own ego through his penis!" through it all the side chick looks like a fool but thinks she is special, sweetie, you're not the first, the last, or his everything!!! Women please check out Alexyss Tylor if you haven't already, she puts it in better perspective than I can.
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I am NOT into married men at all and I don't 'n' WONT ever understand a woman's reason 4 doing so!!! Hell, I didn't even understand mine ONCE at the age of 22 with an older "married" guy. It was one of the WORSE feelings of my life and I vowed 2 myself to NEVER in life do that again and after umteen years later and I mean yearsssssssss later I stuck 2 that vow!!!! I also don't like the men who play that F'd up game saying they're not married, but really ARE!!! If I find out they are I am one 2 not be nice about it and they will/do feel my wrath...
ReplyDeleteSingling out any gender male or female only serves at best to see the human condition isn’t gender specific but a mentality and at worst a means to divert or confuse with blame over self needs to tow a line we want the same luxury to chose. The decline of family values is state of mind to use (abuse) what ever tools are available to enable/protect the privilege to not self deny any wants in the moment (instant gratification) most confuse that privilege as a god given right but deny that our past acts diminish our freedoms as we implicate others too us and ask for trust beyond how we feel in any one moment. Adultery and infidelity have been problems from the beginning of the idea of Monogamy or marriage when the responsibility can be circumvented for a past choices is possible. It will continue to be a statement of character as long as values don’t transcend culture and environment as learned values or behavior.
ReplyDeleteIn this day and age where divorce is treated as a right, and we fight to justify or defend loop holes as equil to the commitment of our vows we serve more than one master and will always undermine our own best interests and one anothers. Tools of rational like like irreconcilable differences or “abuse” the act of devorce when treeted as a rite of passage to adulthood and almost bragged about, “traditional family values” are mocked now more than ever when someone speeks out loud about them and seen as the man/woman on the street corner with a sign the End is Nigh and ridiculed, grouped with terms like out of touch or old fashion to just they are obsessed/stalker. We protect loopholes because we our self don’t want to be committed beyond what we see in the moments or imidate future as beneficial. As soon as someone says, “I wish I could have someone as great as you!”, and think how can I be with them over who I am with we look for a loop hole and the person who may give a complement is as mush the home wrecker as those who abandon the vows for better or worse.
We have to chose at some point what matters to us most and as long as we lose faith in our own commitment or others we will protect that rational of divorce as equity or greater than self preservation, that line paves the road to easier transgressions like adultery too many will chose their own happiness in the moment over weathering the storms of boredom, fear or dissatisfaction and our children and one another will pay the price one person or another’s wants fulfillments at any cost as equal in reason and convection as those arguments about abuse and self preservation , the same tools are used for both and the same result, that we/they chose what they think is best most of all for them self. The world can be what we make it but only in how we each chose only for our self what we will allow ourselves to do or for one another and what/if we chose to say is too much for me to ask others to pay for so I can have what I want. What price is too high to be happy my way, is the question that need to be seen not as a choice about our self but a price tag we could force all to pay for us that if we wont pay for them we will force others to pay for us. No marrage is trouble free and many are chosen hastely with poor motivations or reasons, but once we create lives and ask for trust and commitment we must be the ones each of us to give fist and formost what we ask for, from forgivness to sacrifice or we will never be worthy of being given it in return and like forgivness there is no limit or set amount we should say I gave so you give back or all we are doing is still only trying to protect our own wants over being part of anothers life and createing a truely shared life togeather.
Divorce should be easier, marriage should be a lot harder. A marriage license should cost at least $15,000. If you think that's excessive then do a quick search on the cost of the average wedding.
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